Mrs Violet Stokes

August 19th 2026, passed away peacefully in the Royal Victoria Hospital, after a short illness.

Much-loved wife of Robert (Bobby), devoted mother of Robbie, Suzi, Robert, Pauline and Jane, mother-in-law of Stephen and Brendan, loving nanny of Callum, Jordan, Ryan, Adam, Rebecca, Xander and Oskar. Cherished sister of Patsy and Annabel.

A Service of Thanksgiving will be held in Ballynure Methodist Church on Tuesday 25th August at 11.00 a.m., followed by interment in Ballyclare Cemetery. 

Donations in lieu, if desired, to the REVIVE ICU, RVH online via flemingandcuthbert.co.uk or by telephone (028 9334 4242 Mon – Fri 9.00am – 5.00pm).

A smile for all, a heart of gold, one of the best this world could hold. Never selfish, always kind, these are the memories you leave behind.

Charity details

Revive, ICU RVH

REVIVE is the charity for RICU and raises vital funds to assist the work of RICU in providing the highest standards of care possible for our patients and their families.

Registered Number 104576

http://www.revive-icu.com

Service details

Thanksgiving Service

25 August, 2026 11:00

Ballynure Methodist Church

Main Street , Ballynure, Ballyclare, BT39 9QA

Burial

25 August, 2026 12:00

Ballyclare Cemetery

170 Doagh Road, Ballyclare, BT39 9ER

Messages of condolence

Thinking of you all at this very sad time.

Mrs Joy Mcferran

From Don & Brenda

Mrs Brenda Mcclay

To Robert, Robbie & all the family we send our love & heartfelt sympathy to you at the passing of your loved one & our very dear friend Violet. Already missing our chats, texts, cuppas & laughter. Violet was always loving, always caring & always giving to all whom she met. Resting now in the Lord's loving care. Very sadly missed & always will be remembered.

Mr and Mrs Matt & Joyce Thompson

In memory of a very special lady

Mr Martin Graham

Violet was a real example of a true Christian. I will miss her little cards and letters coming through my door. I will miss my "wee friend" Deepest sympathy to Robert and family. Elma Hill

Mrs Elma Hill

Sandra Elaine and Brian Gorman We are so sorry for your loss Bobby and family We will be thinking of you all in the days and months to come

Mrs Elaine Morrison

Robert we are both deeply sorry for the loss of Violet, she was a truly wonderful person. May you find comfort and support of those around you at this time. Our deepest condolences

Mr and Mrs Anne &John Stokes

Such a wonderful lady who will be missed so much. Gone home to the Lord now her work is complete. God's blessings.

Mr and Mrs Feby and Ronnie Rosbotham

We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.May all the memories you created with Violet help you find comfort during this time. Auntie Violet was such an amazing person, and her kindness and love for people will be remembered with fondness. Love Karen and Alan

Mr and Mrs Alan and Karen Mcclean

SADLY MISSED

Miss JUNE JACK

My dear and faithful friend Violet will never be forgotten.

Mr and Mrs Edith & Stuart Whiteside

Grateful to all at revive ICU for the care and compassion shown to my Aunt Violet Stokes and our family

Ms Laurie Witherow

Our wee friend and neighbour who was so special to us all we will miss you so much. To the chats over the wall, the constant food being passed over and the treats for Abbie. Heaven now has an angel in Violet. Our deepest sympathies to Robert and the entire family circle. Words can't express how much we are going to miss you Violet. Sleep easy xx

Mr and Mrs Matthew Sefton